
Jim asks…
we are having a very casual wedding that we have agreed apon. even with the date so near we have not totaly figured out what we are going to do as far as the place. we know we have a lot of friends and family that are coming and we dont want to hurt anyone feelsings.
Are there any ideas that you can think of that we can accomadate everyone and still maintain a very casual atmosphere. when i say casual i really mean casual. unless he wants to do that cake thing i dont really want it. no first dance none of that. very very basic. we are both wearing black for the occasion. he is still searching for his perfect outfit but this is what i am wearing it should be here in about a week.
[dont laugh yes i ordered it online. ]
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=370040413112&ssPageName=ADME:X:AAQ:US:1123
we are not doing invitations we are doing those by phone when we get home. its just very informal and i would like to be opposite of normal wedding
not many people know about it yet… i mean the in-laws and my parents who cant come cause its too far and some of my friends at home that cant come cause its too far… but i chose the dress cause it is kind of sexy and i like to dress up i am just trying to think of a simple idea so that people can come. mostly it is his friends and family and like only a few of mine who live in the area… its just family and friends that you ahve had forever [which really is like family] it is a BIG BIG thing… any ideas?????
First off, the dress is gorgeous but with the style and color its immediatly going to give your wedding a more formal theme just by wearing it. I know you already bought it but maybe something a little more casual will help with the casual theme of the wedding…heres one a little less formal..
Http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD244144
As for the guests, are you planning on inviting or did you invite those ppl and now want to uninvite them? If thats the case you really can’t do that. If you invited them already youre stuck. As for people who just assume they will be invited, send them an announcement and an invite to the reception after. Many restaurants will accomodate large groups and you’ll get deals on decor and stuff.
You don’t want any of the traditional wedding stuff so why don’t you just go have a judge do it for you. You can still dress up and most judges allow you to have your closest family members present during the ceremony part.

Charlie asks…
Im 18 and meeting up with my online guy friend for the first time.. we want to meet before we become more so I suppose its kind of a date? And I have noooo idea to wear!!!!!!
Ok so my style is kind of indie/taylor swift style… I want to look casual but pretty
Also what about make up? I don’t want to wear loadsss because i like to look natural but I still want to be attractive and highlight my best assests… which are apparently my lips? haha
I am 5ft 3 btw, dark blonde hair and green eyes if that helps? So please help me out
Im bricking it as it is and If I have my outfit sorted out it will make it so much easier
A nice natural/floral knee height dress, with tights! I think that would suit you from the description you gave me! Or I would suggest skinny jeans or shorts with tights, with a nice top:-)

Shelley asks…
I have a casual meeting to go in the morning then later on a dinner date and unsure what to go with. I’m wearing navy slacks and am undecided on which polo shirt after trying on the three shirts with my slacks. they are a red 6 button, yellow 3 button or a blue 2 button shirt. I’m unsure if I need to change the outfit for the meeting to a different one for dinner. The shirts didn’t look right unbuttoned when I first put them on. I could use some suggestions on how many to button up on any or all of the shirts as part of the choices. I’m also debating whether or not I should take a nap after the meeting before we go to dinner. I’ll be up early for this meeting so any help would be appreciated
For the red shirt: Button up 4, Yellow shirt: button up 1, and the blue shirt, don’t button. Don’t focus on your clothing, though. Just go in whatever feels comfortable and relax. Have fun on your date.

Elizabeth asks…
I was just browsing an imageboard on the internet and a image caught my eye of an actress and she was wearing 2 really cute outfits that I think my GF would look really good in and I would want to see her in them. Like if I buy her a full similar outfits from the mall and ask her to wear them the next time we go on a date, would that be rude? Like I don’t want to tell her how to dress, I just think she’ll look super sexy and it’ll turn me on if she wears something that I find attractive. It’s nothing revealing or slutty, it just looks really cute and casual and I like the colors and earings. Good or bad idea?
Here are the two outfits if you care,
First one:
http://i.imgur.com/cwyc9.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/oJKYp.jpg
Second one:
http://i.imgur.com/QCSt6.jpg
It sound OK for me. (I’m a girl alright). It will be cute of you to buy her the outfit and if I’m at her place I will be happy to ware it for you. Like you said it nothing revealing or slutty, so it should be fine. Go for it and have fun… ![]()

Mandy asks…
Okay, so my friends are both going on dates this weekend (the first for both) and they have no idea what to wear. It’s a double-date to the movies if that makes any difference.
So their styles are:
Friend 1) She is tall and model-thin. She dresses in all-designer clothes all the time and she really likes to stand out. She has long brown hair and tan skin and brown eyes
Friend 2) She is really short (and I mean REALLY short) but super-skinny. She dresses nice, but more laid-back and casual than Friend 1. But she also likes a lot of designer stuff. She has long brown hair and really pale skin and blue/gray/green (hard to describe) eyes.
So what should they wear? Pictures would be helpful.
Oh, and they’re both 14, if that helps.
Try these brands
hollister
Abercrombie & Fitch
or
aeropostal
maybe a low cut shirt
and shorts
with nice sandals
and if you always wear you hair Straight make it curly and if its always curly make it Straight
wear eyeliner mascaraa lip gloss and perfume and earrings
i personally like this outfit
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&productId=727385&langId=-1&categoryId=12607&parentCategoryId=12552&colorSequence=02
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10901&storeId=10051&langId=-1&categoryId=12250&parentCategoryId=12840&topCategoryId=12203&productId=689911
or
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&productId=777054&langId=-1&categoryId=16434&parentCategoryId=12552
and
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&productId=728116&langId=-1&categoryId=12596&parentCategoryId=12552
or you can just ask them if they want to match lol
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Lynn asks…
ok so im 17 going to be 18 soon btw im a guy, i dont drive just because money is really tight right now but will be in a few weeks, plus im applying for a job and also a senior and anyways just a intro to get the comments off. So the girl im talking to is same age and she drives so shes pretty flixable(no im not going to have her drive me but would be nice lol) but ive known her since middle school and dated her about 4 times in mid school lol we went to diff schools for highschool and stopped talking.. but i have a thing for her shes a great person, so about a week ago i said hey to her on fb as i dont see her, we started talking, got the number and asked her to go out some day and she gave me the ok, i asked her what she liked to do but i got “idk lol” so yeah. shes shy kinda, mostly a girl friends type girl, doest reall go out wih guys, nor does she party, and we have the same views on things and stuff. so i want to go out with her, shes someone id like to bring home so i really want this. im not really to nervous, i went out on a blind date to the movies one day with someone else and went well, shes a friend thou not for me, but also new year no goals, im going to actually try and not be scared of going out and all, so im good on that part, all i really need help is where too?
see i would say a movie but that can be akward with the silence then usually a movie for teens atleast is more like dating holding hands and kissing and all that, but i dont wnt that i want to not creep the girl or you know just be an adult and show im mature and all, so movie ehh idk not really but ok i guess.
now a dinner, i think thats to romantic well just to going in far, i was reserving the dinner for maybe the next time or to as her out. and if a dinner it would be somewhere fun like Chilis or cheaper, but once again like a movie it can be a ice breaker but more for once u know how the person is for u. which with her yeah she gave me a chance and talking to me but its hard to tell the feelings because i know her and shes more reserved and not shy but not open.
so that leads me to something fun…. like bowling, im not sure, or indoor rock climbing but i want to talk more and have fun, and break the ice and be chill, then theres ice skating but not sure, wel haha everytime i asked her out as a kid it was at the roller skating rink lol… and then bowling being a option there is also ice cream at the beach on a friday or weekend night….. now once again i am shy but im going to be brave, been single for a long time, usually ppl are suprised i dont have a gf because how niice and sweet i am, and dress good casual i guess, and she is shy but thats my opinion, only with guys thou im guessing she used to be, and shes queit , so please give me other ideas i dont have, or recomedations and etc. it is winter i do live in florida and temps are a lil chilly but good, also i am trying to get a date by this week if not next at latest, she does know, and all, i have not seen her since middle school or talked so yes the nervs and first date like feelings apply since its been so long…. Thank you for anything
LMAO yes i know its a lot…. its kinda blah, lol but sorry i was bored, at home thinking and i get type happy haha,
Movies!!!
Take her to a movie and dinner right there.
The move you’ll see is a humor movie not romantic of scary (unless you (and her) like scary).
Next when you eat you 2 have to talk about old times and new times and finally when you dismiss you shake hands and if she likes you and wants to go out again she’ll give you a sign (SO BE VIGILANT).
NO FANCY DINNER it’s too romantic… (and simply not fun)
Bowling NO it’s too fun and you might have to depend on someone/thing else…
Indoor rock climbing mite be nice but i think you should stick to movies…

Mike asks…
Two of my really good friends just confessed they like each other and are going to go on a date and see how it works out. Looking for first date ideas that are fun and pretty casual.
Their idea of a date was playing each other in basketball and I think that’s the worst idea ever. Plus, she’ll totally beat him!
Ideas? It’s not cold enough for ice skating and not warm enough for mini-golf yet…
Are there any sporting events they can go to? Or….something?!
Bowling,,watch movie,,

Marie asks…
i asked a girl to go hangout with me tomorrow…i like her and i Think she likes me back (not sure) anyways….wat are some things girls like to do during the day…not really a formal date but sota casual and fun….semi date
Bowling, Movies, Ice Cream, Shopping, Mini-Golf, Arcade, Pizza, there are tons of things!

David asks…
me and my boyfriend are both highschool freshman. he’s kind of a laid back rocker, stoner-ish guy. i need some good casual date ideas or something. usually we just hang out with a bunch of his friends and listen to music and just chill, or go to concerts. so i need ideas, but something fun to do with friends…
How bout paint ball, or lazer tag?

Susan asks…
So I met this girl at my cousin’s wedding, and I really like her. I know this seems kinda funny and rediculous, but I have never actually gone on a date with anyone yet.
What are some good, casual, fun things we could do, that would be appropriate for a first date? I was thinking possibly spending a day at Paramount’s Great America (We live in the bay area). I’m not sure if that is an OK thing to do though, considering it would be an ALL-DAY ordeal.
Also, should I pick her up, or meet her there. And I am pretty sure I should pay, even though we aren’t really a “couple” yet… right?
Any ideas are welcome.
We’re both 21.
Ya,
do any thing fun BUT DON”T go to a movie on your first date. Movies are a waist of time when you want to get to know some one.go and eat walk on the bay go any were ang
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Don asks…
A friend of mine (more of an acquaintance) is in her early 40s and had a baby almost 2 yrs ago. She still isn’t working because she prefers to stay at home with baby. That’s fine, but she’s raising the baby alone. She also has 2 teenagers from a previous marriage. I’ve never asked her, but she mentioned that her parents help her out financially once in a while. She also said that her savings ran out last year. I don’t get it because rent costs approx. $900 per month. How can she do it? I’m baffled and wouldn’t dare ask her. I’m not nosey, just trying to figure it out. Her parents aren’t that rich, as far as I’m concerned.
Child support from her children’s fathers, if you have a child under 5 you get some money from the government, and maybe she has savings.

Davina asks…
Talk about sex? The other day though after my 8 year old sons practice my wife and I wanted to get a quickie while he was doing his homework and he knocked on our door after twisting the locked knob. I said “what buddy?” and he said “I need help with number 7″ So I said “I’ll help you in a minute ok?” Then it got quiet as we waited for an “ok” but instead we heard “I know what you guys are doing anyways.” It was so scary for some reason lol. I lay on top of my wife and she just puts her hands over her mouth with an “omg” face. I didn’t even know how to respond so I just ended up putting on a shirt and shorts and going out there to help him.
During a problem I ask “what were we doing then?” And he just smiled. I said “what?” Then he made a circle with his thumb and index and then used his opposite index to poke in and out of it. So I’m like “who taught you that.” And he laughed saying “Thomas” (his older cousin.) So yeah I had to just have the talk with him right then and there. It wasn’t bad at all, it was actually pretty funny. But do you think 8 is too young? I basically taught him about why people want to do it as he already knew how babies are made (he’s a smart kid and loves animals.) But yeah, I have no idea how he knew we were having sex. I guess kids automatically think privacy = sex when it comes to mom and dad.
But yeah what age did you do it? Was it easy or uncomfortable?
As an elementary school teacher, I think you did a wonderful job! Research has shown time and again that a comprehensive sexuality education is the most effective way to prevent STD’s, adolescent pregnancy, and early sexual experimentation. Hopefully this won’t be the only conversation that you have with your son. It is important that we teach our children not only about the mechanics and plumbing of sex, but also our expectations for their behavior and how they treat the special people in their lives. I only wish that more of my students were able to have such frank conversations with their parents.

Kylee asks…
I am 2 pounds away from my pre baby weight, and it’s been 5 months since I had my son. But I still have a little extra skin where my stretch marks are, does this go away?
You have to work out A LOT but yes it can

Marie asks…
My son is 3 weeks old and in about 2 to 3 weeks i have to have an abdominal surgery and I know i wont be able to nurse for at least 1 day b.c of a ct i have to get done and 1 day after the surgery b.c of the anastesia and im not sure about after but i have pumped milk frozen that i have been building up for this but how do i feed him and him not get nipple confusion so when i can nurse again he will latch, what is the best bottle or tips? thanks!
If the contrast dye is Optiray, you can breastfeed almost immediately. Anesthesia is also not a reason not to breastfeed. If it was still in your system in significant quantities, you’d be asleep. If you doubt this, go to the infantrisk website, call the number, and ask. If you check ahead of time and get the names of all the drugs/medications (and the contrast dye), they can go through every one, but I doubt you will need to use a bottle at all when you are able to be with the baby.

Lisa asks…
My son is turning 1 soon. Doctor said that he should be able to start drinking cow (whole) milk. However, my son doesn’t like to drink anything cold. He likes it when it is luke-warm.
How should I heat up whole milk to luke-warm temperature without having to buy any special stuffs? Is it safe for him to drink luke warm milk? Is the nutritient value still good for him?
How long can the luke warm milk stay out without refrigeration? Can we reheat the luke warm milk if it turns cold or have been re-refrigerated?
He has not started drinking cow milk. And he does not use bottle. Thanks!
I’d just put it in a sippy cup with no valve and put it in a pan about halfway up with water that has come to a simmer. Just leave it in there a minute or two. Otherwise, and not to be rude, but he’s going to have to learn how to drink cold milk one of these days. I don’t think teachers take kindly to special requests in kindergarten. Might as well start him now — or at least room temp milk. Yes, it’s safe to drink warm milk. That’s what hot chocolate (the real stuff) is made from, that’s what we grew up drinking when we couldn’t sleep, that’s what happens to milk when you put it in coffee — so lots of people drink warm milk every day. I just wouldn’t leave it out too long. I think the nutrient level is still good for him, but may break down some with the heating, especially if you use microwave. Good luck.
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Ken asks…
I’ve been looking for this song, the only lyrics I remember is “I just want a one night stand“. A girl sings it, and its to the beat of a techno song i remember, but I cant remember the name. It is not by lil john or ciara, and it was a rap like song. Any help?!
There’s a song with that title by Divide The Day and Enrique Iglesias

Paul asks…
It’s a ridiculous song and I can’t seem to find it anywhere on the internet. All I have to go by is what I can remember of the lyrics from hearing it on the radio. It goes like “It’s like a thousand degrees and now we’re inches apart when you whisper to me i dont even know who you are but i wanna touch you baby. There’s no romance in a one night stand.”
OMG i found it!!!!! It’s called one night stand by sandlot heroes!! Omg i’ve been looking for it too and i’m so glad i found it

Helena asks…
Can anyone tell me what is the name of a r&b song that has in its lyrics?:”..it was a one night stand.i aint tryna be ur man.u think u got me whip.stop callin my tip.?”It was back in like early 2000s like ’01,’02,and ’03. I think it was from a group in Chicago,but I think it was a song on 106nPark when A.J. and Free use to host it.
The closest thing I could find was a track by J-shin called One Night Stand. It was produced in 1999. You can find the lyrics in the source, if that isnt the track then it was probably an artist local to the area getting local airplay.

Richard asks…
Can anyone tell me what is the name of a r&b song that has in its lyrics?:”..it was a one night stand.i aint tryna be ur man.u think u got me whip.stop callin my tip.?”The video is them in the club.A man singing is drinking alcohol.NO IT IS NOT MIS-TEEQ’S ONE NIGHT STAND!It was back in like early 2000s like ’01,’02,and ’03. I think it was from a group in Chicago,but I think it was a song on 106nPark when A.J. and Free use to host it.
Try rihana!!!

Lynn asks…
Anyone know the name of the song that plays during the One Night Stand result clips that shows Bobby Lashely, John Cena FUing, and etc? Only lyrics I can hear in it are “Somethings gotta give”. The main line sounds like they’re saying “I know I can take it” (or something like that.) Thanks in advance.
Its called famous by puddle of mudd you can download it on limewire for free
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